Do You Please Your Man

Pleasing a man should be at the top of your priority list if you're in a serious relationship with one, most especially if he answers to the name of "husband". It seems that today there are too many women who have forgotten this and are so busy seeking after what they want that they forget to take the needs and desires of their significant others into consideration. It is a silly thing, really, because a satisfied and happy man will almost always see to the needs and desires of the women who is keeping him that way.

In reading this, you are obviously not among this group of self-seeking women and that is a very good thing for both you and the man lucky enough to have you in his life. Sometimes it's hard to come up with ideas on your own that will please your man, so I am going to give you five things that you can put on your own "honey-do" list. Watch his reaction. Smile on his face, eyes lit up, and a thankful heart. You'll get your own reward.

1-Food is the way to a man's heart and that is where you'll be if you take the time to prepare something extra special. Make that favorite meal and follow it with the most decadent dessert you know how to. Serve it with a love note written on the napkin, in your apron, only your apron.

2-Give him a break! Let him go out and enjoy some male bonding once in a while. Do it without complaining, even sending him off with a smile. When he gets home, ask how his day was and listen if he wants to share testosterone-filled stories with you. Otherwise, let it go, don't put him through an inquisition about every minute of the day he spent away.

3-Speak kindly about his family, especially his mother. Men like this more than you may know. Often, there is a rivalry of sorts between mothers and daughters-in-law, but you can end that by being the bigger person and showing his mother kindness and respect. He will appreciate not having to feel torn between the two of you.

4-This one may be a bit difficult for many women, but if you can develop it as a habit, you will have one of the happiest men around. Quit nagging! Don't complain about every little thing that really doesn't matter in the long run. Notice the positive things he does more than the negative and let him know.

5-This last one is the typical no-brainer for most of us...sex. Okay, so you probably are already giving him that, but why not spice it up a little in a way that will appeal to him? He doesn't need the candles and soft music. Once in a while, that's great, but he wants you to take the initiative and ravage him from head to toe sometimes. Wear something sexy and risque, out of the ordinary, and meet him at the door. Take him by the hand and lead him somewhere other than the bedroom. Use your mouth to waken every one of his senses and he will be like putty in your loving hands.