Ever wonder why she’s never in the mood? Always seem to have a headache? Well according to AOL Health, men are making 5 bedroom mistakes that may be contributing to their lovers lukewarm or non-existent passion in the boudoir.Dr. Yvonne K. Fulbright, sex educator and author of "Sultry Sex Talk to Seduce Any Lover." says women like having sex, sometimes with libidos that surpass their men! The key to awakening or keeping that passion alive and sizzling, may be as simple as 5 little steps.
Below are the 5 bedroom mistakes Dr. Fulbright says men are making:
Mistake No. 1: Not Taking Charge
Women are leaders in the workplace. They run the household and can do pretty much anything they put their minds to. But when it comes to sex, they often want you to take charge and "be the man." Anything halfhearted and tentative is a turnoff.
Mistake No. 2: Sticking to the Same Old Routine
If you've been with the same person for a while, you probably know the exact moves that are needed in order to pleasure your partner. But sex can become as tedious as watching reruns if you never change things up.
Mistake No. 3: Focusing on the Finish Line
Life is about the journey, not the destination, and the same thing is true for sex. When you're frantically laboring away toward your own climax, it's usually not that fun for your partner. Truly hot sex comes from taking your time and exploring.
Mistake No. 4: Not Making Love Frequently Enough
Most men say that if it were up to them, they'd be having sex every night of the week. But how many times has your partner found you asleep on the couch with ESPN blaring on the television?
Mistake No. 5: Not Giving Women More Massages
Giving a massage can sound about as much fun as a trip to that fancy soap and candle store in the mall. But by spending time touching your partner in a sensual but not quite sexual way, you'll make her more relaxed and open to the idea of having sex.
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