One cannot generalize as to why someone is experiencing a low level of sexual desire. Loss of libido can have a variety of causes, some psychological, some not.
I am not surprised by the results that 85% of men said the last person they slept with had an orgasm, but only 64% of women said they did. Men can't hide it when they orgasm – it's an easy one to verify – but with women, it's not so easy, at least not with all women. From what I have heard clinically, there are a couple of things going on here. Many men just assume women have orgasmed and don't ask.
Pleasing a man should be at the top of your priority list if you're in a serious relationship with one, most especially if he answers to the name of "husband". It seems that today there are too many women who have forgotten this and are so busy seeking after what they want that they forget to take the needs and desires of their significant others into consideration. It is a silly thing, really, because a satisfied and happy man will almost always see to the needs and desires of the women who is keeping him that way.
